Seventeenth Blog

SAFETY IS THE KEY!!!!


Never meet at your home or his...but espeicailly your home.

Never rush to give you number....try to get a google number..its free and will ring your phone.

Always tell someone where you are going and who with.  *try life 360 people in your circle can track your phone*

Never do things until you are ready, remember you are worth waiting for.

CONDOMS FIT EVERYONE.



Play Safe


Love
F.U.

Sixteenth Blog

Sorry, I did not post yesterday.

But today is a new day and here is your word:


KNOW YOUR WORTH....

Know what you want and about. And do not fall from it

Fifteenth Blog

Where you meet the mens?? or the womens? ha ha

Online...
grocery store.....

GAS STATION.....

and

Why is it when you look crazy you catch someone attention?



Love
F.U.

Fourteenth Blog

When dating be opened minded to where you go. Think out of the box. You may find a new activity that you really enjoy.

Have a blessed day
F.U.

Thirteenth Blog

Be mindful of children when dating. They also forms binds and should not be used as pawns.

Twelfth BLog

Why you no have your own place?

Ok I got my own place why you don't have yours?

I do not want to go to your mother's house....I do not want to go to your friends house.......


ha ha



GET YOUR OWN PLACE...that might impress somene cause you sure can't come live with me.


Love
F.U.

Eleventh Blog

Make that list. Yes like a grocery list.
List of what you want your S/O to be.

Tall
Fit
Working
Non Smoking
Cuddler
What ever is on your list that you feel is important to you....WRITE IT.

Then get yourself in line with that list.

Don't settle....ok maybe a little...on things you think you can deal with...but remember you can't change them and they can not change you.


LOVE
F.U.

Tenth Blog

It is ok to sit back and let some chase you.  You are worth the work.

Ninth Blog

OooooOooooooOoooooo

It does not matter where you meet someone*ie online, in person, at a club, or on a hook up phone line* THE RELATIONSHIP WILL ONLY GO WHERE YOU ALLOW IT.

So....with that said you can meet your love anywhere just be open and willing.




Love
F.U.

Eighth Blog

It's Monday again! I been doing this for 8 days now. I am really shocked.

Let us talk what is can be a fun date. Most people are caught up on dinner and movie *yawn* There are many thing to do.

Here is my short list.

1. Coffee and books. Yes go to a bookstore that serves coffee, grab a ton of poetry books and question books, then read TO EACH OTHER.

2. Go to the gym together *ok I hate walking outside but will kick but on a treadmill*

3. Museums are fun and spark conversation.

4. Church, yes I said it so what.
    ps. the Bible could be one of the books you read together and talk about.

5. Free concerts or plays in the park.



There a short list of  5 easy dates.


Happy Dating
F.U.

Seventh Blog

Faith is a little religious.

So today I will tell you that it is OK  to date, love and marry  a REAL GOD FEARING MAN.

You know the one that goes to church and active in the church. The one that prays for and with you.
The one that will stand up in church reach his arms high to God and cry cause he is caught up in that praise.
The one that not only reads the Bible but can teach you from it.

A God fearing man may not be a good fit for you but do not walk away from him cause he might be the one for you and you not know it.





Peace and Love
F.U.

Sitxth Blog

Just because someone give you their number, do not mean:

1. I will answer a text in .1 second
and most importantly
2. I DO NOT WANT A PIC OF YOUR JUNK.


Happy Saturday
F.U.

Fifth BLOG

Live from inside Faith's head:

I DO NOT CARE WHAT YOU HAVE IN YOUR POCKET BANK PANTS. I DO NOT CARE IF YOU HAVE THE LATEST HOT RIDE TRICKED OUT. I AM NOT IMPRESSED BY WHAT CLOTHES YOU HAVE ON OR WHAT SHOES YOU WEAR. I DO NOT CARE IF YOU HAVE A PICTURE OF YOU WITH 50 OF YOUR CLOSET FRIENDS IN THE HOTTEST CLUB. I DO FIND YOUR BLINGED OUT GRILL GROSS.

If those are the things you value, which are all material Faith is not the girl..WOMAN for you.

What Faith cares about? Are you a hard worker? Do you value family? Can you find pleasure in sitting at home watching a movie? Can you find the fun in just being simple with out all the fluff? Do you find peace in religion? I would per fer God and church...

Now do not get this twisted. I do not want you to "struggle". Just know there is a season for everything and that material things may come but they can also be taken away.




Love
F.U.


PS.

I think i am getting the hang of this,.

Fourth Blog

Let me ask, What is a nice restaurant?

I am not saying I am above some restaurants, but when someone says I WANT TO TAKE YOU TO A NICE RESTAURANT....I do not see Red Lobster or the like of that. Applebees not a nice restaurant. Nice would maybe need a reservation? Or a slight dress code. That is nice. Red Lobster and the rest are just restaurants for every day, not nice. Now remember, THIS IS MY OPINION you do not have to agree.



Love,
F.U.


OH PS


Or some little nice dark quaint restruant that no one knows about. That would be nice too.

Third Blog

Do you ever wonder why some people are single? Or do they ever really score? I will show you an actual email. Ok this is a copy and past job and yes I changed the guys name.....or should I say boy's name...here you go:

BOY 10/9/2012 5:33:40 PM Want to fuck F.U. 10/9/2012 5:35:09 PM Nope good luck BOY 10/9/2012 5:38:20 PM Thanks

So now Faith thinks to self do women or girls really fall for that blantent forwardness? Is this person scared of his junk falling of or just sleeping with some internet chick? What happened to HELLO MY NAME IS and YOU ARE?  I remember back in my younger days even on "ADULT" sites that is how conversations started.  Love F.U.

Second Blog

I think until I get good all my blogs will be numbered..that just might be easy for me.

Today I will say...in mind body heart and soul I am single. Now if I can just get the paper to agree.

Saying that. Soooo I will admit I have been lurking on dating sites for a long time. Recently, after putting my other out, re-activating my profiles. withe the above statement. Why are people, ok MEN, get upset when I say I do not want another relationship right now or any time soon. Hell fire my ink is not dry yet...better yet, I nor filed. I just want to talk. Be entertained in the lonely evening hours when I should be sleep.

I just think its "cuffing" season.

Ha ha! I bet you wonder what that is? I saw a calendar titled HOW TO GET THROUGH CUFFING SEASON. It when "men" OK maybe boys, find stupid, insecure, lonely or ummm just down women ok again..maybe girls....play a little I LOVE YOU game for a month or two before it gets cold. Then by the first real cold day convince said women or girl to allow him to move in with her. Pretty much, he stays there for the winter and by summer he finds away out.


And with that I am out for the day.


Love
F.U.

PS
BEWARE OF CUFFING SEASON.

First Blog

FIRST BLOG!!
Ok that was the first line.
Wiat that was the second line.
OH MY MUST FOCUS AND STAY ON TRACK..

The blog will be about ME..of course cause who is more important to me then me?

So I will come in at RANDOM times with crazy stuff about my life and dating.

All names and some scenarios will be changed to protect the innocent, dumb and those who GET ON MY LAST NERVE.

I will try not to curse here, that may be hard, but there will be some colorful words.

So, I am also going to start this blog with this...IF YOU HAVE A DATING STORY THAT YOU WANT TO TELL ANONYMOUSLY TELL ME...I will change names and write it for you.

and Grammar Nazi....GO AWAY...I don't care. I just type what word pop up in my head.



With Peace and Love
Divorced Female